tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2003329950316418360.post1084016558402834423..comments2023-09-30T07:19:22.053-07:00Comments on Saving My Life: Bleeding LoveKimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13717571306196215906noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2003329950316418360.post-66860821084629415352010-11-02T19:50:20.052-07:002010-11-02T19:50:20.052-07:00I have no wise advice. Just hang in there. So glad...I have no wise advice. Just hang in there. So glad you are in therapy. Keep taking care of yourself and your kids. planning for your future and school are fantastic ways to focus on the positive. I highly recommend anything in healthcare..that is the field of the future with all us boomers getting old.PJ Geekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16550278783075004470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2003329950316418360.post-58594535137511193682010-11-02T10:06:58.128-07:002010-11-02T10:06:58.128-07:00Yes, you're right Robin and actually it's ...Yes, you're right Robin and actually it's funny you mentioned private journaling b/c that's exactly what I've been doing here recently. I keep a notebook with me at all times so when a thought comes up, I write it down before I have time to "stuff" it down or forget about it. <br /> I'm still trying to remember to do what is right for me, but I admit...it's very hard. It's hard b/c I have to think about my kids before anyone else...which of course I want to do that, but in doing it, I have to be concerned for David b/c he's my kids father. I can't cry as much as I want b/c I don't want to traumatize my kids...see what I'm getting at? (sigh) It's been hard to draw that line I admit. Hopefully therapy will help me see the kind of healthy decisions I need to make w/o compromising my emotional recovery. Thanks Robin. :)Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13717571306196215906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2003329950316418360.post-84410448503130145402010-11-02T09:57:59.982-07:002010-11-02T09:57:59.982-07:00The down and dirty here is that what you are going...The down and dirty here is that what you are going through is hard. I am glad that you are getting counseling. Take things slow and do what you feel is right. Don't do what is right for someone else. Do what is right for you. Your therapist is probably right about the blogging. I know that writing helps me to sort things out in my head. If you don't want to blog here, maybe keep a private journal just for you. But having your thoughts just circling around can make things more, rather than less, confusing. Hang in there!Robinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14932408372240147454noreply@blogger.com